Disappointed
My father once said if people will ever respect you in this family and world after your status and behavior is for the money you have in your account. I always said to myself that my dad is wrong. But now I feel he was right...I have always helped my sisters whenever they required any financial support. I never asked anything in return neither I expected. My love for them has been unconditional. Money never mattered to me in life as it never bought me any happiness. I never felt that because my account has sufficient funds I am living a happy life. I always prayed and asked GOD for just one thing that is peace and happiness. Never got even one of them. I still keep thinking maybe its another exam from GOD and once I pass this happiness will soon come my way...
But recently I realized that my sisters are part of those people who are not with me for the love we have for each other. They have equally become part of this mean society where there is no love.
Its been 3 days and I am just trying to get answers to my questions....Is money everything in life that makes people forget their relation with their family? Does money gives one person superiority over another? Is that the reason we treat poor on the streets not worth our society and neglect them? Is that the reason when siblings argue after their parents death just to have the share of it? But this money doesn't gives us happiness. Is happiness worth sacrifying for money? Do you have answers to any of these questions and many other that are soaring my mind?
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Of course not! Money is important but it does not mean it's everything! Family issue should be considered among others issues. money is a printed paper where you can exchange it with goods(clothes, car,food,etc..) but we can never buy love, family and happiness with money.
Does money gives one person superiority over another?
No, it doesn't. Although many people think it does but in fact I do believe that a human loses superiority when he's dead. People only remember those with good and respective rule in life.
Is that the reason we treat poor on the streets not worth our society and neglect them?
Poor people should never be neglected, however many of us always search for them to support them with money and the help they need.
Is that the reason when siblings argue after their parents death just to have the share of it?
Unfortunately that's what happens after parents death. Each person thinks that he didn't get his right share which leads to an argument between family members that doesn't worth at all.
But this money doesn't gives us happiness. Is happiness worth scarifying for money?
It doesn't amu! Sometimes it worth and it depends on the situation, but as I told you, you can't buy happiness with money!
Do you have answers to any of these questions and many other that are soaring my mind?
Yes I've already answered your questions :)
Amethyst: i wish it was as simple as u said
thats why its so true... al qana3a kanz la yafna!
Navy: I didn't judge her its just the way she acted was so odd and it gave me the surety as I have seen it and different times previously!
Pinkest: I hope soon...Welcome here :)
i agree money doesnt buy happiness, it maybe buy you a comfortable lifestyle though, but thats it
and i think most people associate comfortable with happy
its sad wat the world has come down to, and i really am sorry that you and i have to live in such greedy times :(
I wish you the best of luck in this situation. You seem like a wonderful person. Don't let anyone take advantage of you... even if it's family.
واللي يقول عكس هالشي مع الاسف محدوديات تفكيرة قصيره جداً.
w tadree shnu ely yeqhar? ena hal ayam kel shai yenqas bl flos, even relationships.. bs 3ad family relation ashofha qaweya, cuz etha el 3alaqa el 2usarya e5tarbat because of money, 3ayal el denya mu eb5eer!
anyway, to overcome hal situations.. kel ely neqdar 3leh ena we switch it to the past, because then we realise ena hal "change" ely 9ar mu bedna :)
^ 3ala qolat el comment ely qably bl shwai "..it maybe buy you a comfortable lifestyle though, but thats it"
and dont keep those thoughts in your mind that your sisters love you for your money ! maybe there was some misunderstanding but that doesnt mean what you said is true ..
and hell NO money does not buy happiness .. and happiness dont just come along .. you have to work REALLY REALLY HARD till you get there ,, well i didnt reach it yet :(
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الفلوس تغير النفوس
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As for happiness and life ima big believer of Karma. I think the longer i continue doing the best i can for myself and every1 around me things should work out for the better even if that means it might get a little bit worse along the way.
Ok, im not going to go in details, i will suffice with a few words.
Money is important.
Money is not everything.
When someone loses their health , sometimes limitless funds cant cure them.
Health and well-being IS everything.
geo: I cant forgive...
Hamitaf: so true...noone is ever happy for anyone anymore!!
likeairillrise: thanks for the care :)
smarties: I guess thats y we are earning to get a better life...
Anon: I dont agree!
feminist: they made me think like this!!!
Anon: thanks for the wishes :)
Harlow: thats sad though :/
Big Pearls: there where I am sayin thats its no worth it!
dooda: I belive in karma too..thanks for passing by!!
delicately realisic: it ok :) welcome again... I agree with every word you have said here!!
I am not saying that buying certain things and having the ability to doesnt make a person happy..cz it can. But that person has to know and understand the values and priorities in life first, and know that money doesnt define them, and make them better than anyone else. And those people are far and few, Amu. I am really sorry to hear about your situation that ur dealing with right now. It saddens me to think that even family can be so cold.
But u have to know something else Amu--ur a nice person and I can tell ur also very generous and outgoing.....sometimes people can get used to that and take it..... and u for granted. And that wud be such a shame...especially when its family oriented.
I hope things get better bro....in the mean time try to smile :)
Dude..she is your sister, and she just might felt as weird as you felt when she asked you too..maybe that is why you think she is acting strange lately..maybe she felt like she couldnt ask you but she really needed it, and that is why it felt akward...she is your sister after all man =)
Dont feel sad, and you know what..if you have a question, just go a head and ask her, if I learn something in this life, from all people, never leave something in your mind and heart, and kill your self wondering whats going on, starting to build up lots of thoughts and ideas, without even knowing the real deal....Amu, if you have questions, the only person could help you is your sister to answer them, not us brother =)
I hope you will find the healing answers and feel better man..
You are rich in ways you can't even begin to calculate. You have a loving family, a roof over your head, food in your mouth, and friends who care about you. You have great memories from your childhood. People like you. You have a job! You have a car! You have air conditioning, and you can buy your own tea/coffee - all the rest is small stuff.
You are as happy as you will allow yourself to be!