One hand please...
We got this new intern at work today...Well she is not really a fresh graduate as she graduated 7 years back. She is with us for a months training. In the morning when I first met her and introduced my self I felt as if she is related to a person I know.
Later on in the day by the end of work I couldn't hold on to my excitement to know if she is related to that person or no. So I went to her office and asked her are you related to ..........? she replied NO. And then a flow of talks started and she told me she is an orphan adopted by a Kuwaiti father and German mother when she was two years old. She told me that both her parents passed away and she doesn't know anything about her real parents as she always felt that asking about her real parents would hurt her parents who have adopted her. After her parents have passed away none of her family wants her and she is all alone.
I could see so much sadness in her eyes. I know this as a fact that a womens heart is very strong and she often doesn't lets the deepest secrets in her heart out and by telling me all this she must be really feeling lonely to let it all out. I wanted to comfort her but I just didn't have words to say.
This all hit me like a needle and since I left work I feel sad. I just have so many things in my mind but no words to write. I am sensitive and I know it will take me sometime now to get over it.
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One of my friend was talking to me on G Chat yesterday and asked me if my sister works in the same company (with her) and I answered yes, she started laughing she thinks we are TWINS hehehehe
Amu, you should talk to her now, since you made elmwaji3 o el2a7zaan come up, and try to make her feel better, bas la tetlazzag 3ad..be pro Bro, you are in dwam =)
One month exactly.. "hayabusa" will be available...write about that, LoL
I can't imagine the hurt she's going through everyday..
she needs a friend right now, someone to talk to.
btw, by blog URL changed, I don't know whats wrong with the other one, faj2a my blog turned into a porn site. anyway this is the new one:
www.fragmentsandextentions.blogspot.com
q8geek: will try that soon...
big pearls: it is...
ansam: mmm maybe!!!
intlxpatr: but I noticed today that she is very strong...
KM: Oh thank you...blame me :P what else? I think I should have gone to her by the end of the day and asked her to drop her home :PpP
haa which bike are you going for??
amethyst: Its sad!!
navy girl: :ppPp
ge6awee: I changed it yesterday...I realized that it changed :) thanks for sharing it!!
thats really sad, she had must been through alot of hard time :/
you don't have to say or do anything, just be a good friend, I think she needs a friend to talk to.
Allah ysa3idha oo ys3idha inshalla
who in their right mind would ever open up to a total stranger and especially at work... where u earn ur living!
dont get upset over such person..
WHEN YOU'RE NOT STRONG
AND I'LL BE YOUR FRIEND
I'LL HELP YOU CARRY ON
Be her friend,
bs mo etmassikh'ha,
coz girls in distress kinda hold on to anyone who shows them abit of kindness!
But dont you think its strange to open up such a conversation to a total stranger..anyway just be careful:)
حدها تعور القلب
الله يعينها والله
where did u go mate?! ;/
come back man!
Invite her to your blog.
Make her participate.
This is not going to make her any less lonely internally, however, she will tend to come out of her gloomy thoughts for a while.
Try to be friends only.
Dont get attached as its very prone for a guy like you to tend to like her for her plight.
Keep it cool dude.
~ Soul
Strong, sensisitive, caring, charming and fucking funny! :)
Kuwait is such a small country ... hehe ... :)
Ansam- yes it is me!!!
Peoples peoples (ms. D)- I feel for you guys who worry about someone opening up to a total stranger- you must have been hurt or taken advantage of; being open about my life is just a part of my personality.
And yes- something that doesn't kill you does indeed makes you stronger!!!
Life is totally crazy- you never know whats gonna come your way. Having grown up in a situation as i did - you see things differently than most. I was extremely blessed to be adopted- and by loving parents as well...
altho twice orphaned - there are loads of people around me that care about me and listen to my whining when those days hit me like a ton of bricks!!
All i can say is that you should live each day to the max- tell that person how you really feel, Random Acts of Kindness go a LOOOOONG way, life is too short and precious for grudges and hate. Love your enemy and make a change around yourself. ok ok- i'll get off my soapbox now!!! I must say tho that im extremely flattered that Amu went out of his way to express his feelings. Don't worry Amu- you don't have a problem with words and your heart is bigger than most!!! I am lucky to have you as a friend!!!